emule plus questions (please helP, thanks)

[ShyPrince]

I am a complete computer noob,I have use emule in the past but it takes long (sorry if it sounds like I am whining) but I am using emule plus, it's a little better.Anyways this site is awesome and I was wondering what preference should I use for emule plus to I can downlaod faster? what priority should I choose? on time left is says 17 days and then jumped to 35 days, dois that a good thing and is that how long the file will take? sorry for all the questions.And how do I share on emule plus and does that make downlaoding faster? and what server should I choose?